second child syndrome

http://blankcanvassesandblankpages.blogspot.com/2010/05/i-am-tired-of-coming-up-with-titles.html

"...trying to be the most diplomatic one in the house. always trying to please. always trying to not offend. always tyring to make sure that there'd never be a slack anywhere. he grows up indecisive and always second-guesses himself."

Oh boy can I relate.

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